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I have ADHD, so it’s hard for me to keep focused and on track. While looking for tools to help me stick to my goals, I came up empty and decided to create them myself. I used Kickstarter to fund it, and it resonated so deeply that we crushed our fundraising goals. So, really, it was people like you who started this brand. People who just needed a little hand building healthy habits.
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Intimacy Deck
Build a deeper connection, one question at a time
Icebreaker Deck
Create new opportunities to connect -and have fun doing it
✅ INTIMACY DECK CARDS FOR COUPLES: BestSelf deck with 150 relationship-building conversation starters makes an ideal gift for a husband from wife & newly wed gifts for the couple. It’s perfect for couples games night and fun games for couples date night, providing get-to-know-you games to strengthen relationships.
✅ RELATIONSHIP CARD GAME FOR COUPLES:These intimacy cards break down communication barriers and foster communication skills. Use them as couples’ question cards and get ready to start an engaging conversation that’ll reignite the spark in your relationship.
✅ COUPLES GAMES DATE NIGHT IDEAS: Best Self Intimacy card game pack brings couples together for date night, giving you conversation ideas for meaningful discussions. With games for couples 2 players, you’ll strengthen your bond and make your night unforgettable.
✅ CONVERSATION CARDS FOR COUPLES: Looking for date night games for young 2 players? Look no further than this couples card game set with fun and exciting getting-to-know-you games. Perfect long distance relationship gifts for couples or as a dating game to make your date night memorable.
✅ RELATIONSHIP GAMES FOR COUPLES: Our set of couples card games for adults games provides exciting ways to strengthen your relationship, making it one of the best games for couples. From communication skills to fun questions for couples, this game for couples has it all.
✅ SPARK PASSION: Elevate romance with our trendy deck of 150 intimate conversation starters. Ideal for couples craving deeper connections, Elevate your love celebration with our charming game for an unforgettable experience
✅ CELEBRATE YOUR DAY WITH A MEANINGFUL GIFT: 150 intimate conversation starters, with RELATIONSHIP, INTIMACY, LIFE, PAST, RANDOM, ABOUT YOU categories, fostering closeness and strengthening relationships for couples, making every moment with wife/Husband/Newly Wed Couple special
Customers say
Customers find the game engaging and fun. They appreciate the interactive questions that open up communication and spark quality conversations. Many consider it a good gift for couples, especially newlyweds. The card deck is described as awesome and serious.
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L. Nahay –
Perfect
I saw something similar on IG but these were half the price and were same day delivery, which was key as it was date night that night. I recently started working nights and it’s been a strain on my BF and I. Neither of us are big talkers, so I liked the topic starters shown in some of the pictures and thought it was worth a try. Shipment arrived in perfect time, and I opened it just before we headed out. He immediately liked the idea and grabbed a card from each topic and put them in my bag. It was a REALLY great night. This is second relationship for us both. We’re both divorced with children from our last marriages, and we both have triggers and traumas from those messes. Some of the cards helped address a few things that we both needed to talk about and hear. They opened up a lot of good conversation and allowed us to even revisit some past difficulties very openly and calmly. Conversation continued through the drive home. Seriously, we only brought like 5 cards, and they did a lot. We both agreed that we had a wonderful, insightful night with these and will continue to use them.
AppreciatesValue –
Helps with deeper connection
My partner is an introvert and it’s hard to get her to open up. We pick a new card daily and it’s helping us talk on a deeper level. Doesn’t take long, it’s fun and it’s increasing our connection.Categories are relationship, life, intimacy, random, about you and past.
Amazon Customer –
Great for Strengthening Connections â Thoughtful and Fun Conversation Starters!
The BestSelf Intimacy Deck has been an amazing tool for deepening our relationship. The conversation starters are thought-provoking, fun, and really helped us explore topics we hadnât discussed before. Whether you’re a new couple or have been together for years, these cards encourage meaningful conversations and create a comfortable space to talk about everything from values to dreams. Itâs been a great way to connect on a deeper level without feeling forced. Highly recommend for couples looking to strengthen their bond!
avid reader 13 –
Great for conversation starters with partner
These are amazing! We use them every now and then just for fun! The only issue I have is that some of the questions are a bit triggering or hard to answer without crying haha. So not all fun questions but definitely important ones!
Ken P –
Great tool for learning about your partner!
So far I am really enjoying the Intimacy cards! My only complaint is I thought the ads showed a card with a category key, and I did not get one. It would be so nice to have a card to choose categories as you draw cards.
vantae_boxysmile –
Intimacy Cards are a MUST!!
I was hesitant to buy these but I saw they were a few dollars off on Black Friday and just went with it. Iâm so glad I did! I got them thinking of my relationship, my boyfriend and I have 10 months together, and some of these questions are talks I would have never thought of asking. I love that it has 6 colored topics. What we did was randomly take turns picking one and weâd ask the question and we would both answer so itâs fair. We decided to do a few every date night and we both agreed last night that these cards were pretty good! We are thinking of buying a few for a few of our married friends for Christmas!! I recommended 10/10!
Cheryl9675 –
Best Investment
This is one of the best investments I’ve made for our relationship. The cards start the conversation by asking specific questions but then new, deep conversations branches off from that. My boyfriend and I really love these cards. Highly recommended.
ms mac –
Pricey, Considering The Quality
The box was smashed and creased along the top (other reviews mentioned this), it has some bad printing and there are a few grammar/ spelling errors. However, there are good conversation-generating questions. Of the 6 categories, “About You” seems to have the best ones. This may not be for couples already in long-term relationships and probably better suited for those starting out. It’s also too expensive for what you get. Should cost at least half due to the questionable quality.
Jenn Kitching –
There are six different categories. And 150 prompts, itâs a mixture of different aspects of your relationship that it has questions about and it is giving my husband and I ideas for questions for each other that we had never thought about asking each other before. Iâm learning so much about him and vice versa. Itâs brought us closer together And itâs such a convenient little box. Definitely recommend!
Michael Mat –
Nice to start make couples fight 🙂
aaron –
Probably not for a middle age couple who know each other well…
Katherine –
These questions are a fun way to learn about your partner, and also provide self insight.
Kerry-ann –
A wonderful conversation starter, a great game to play for date night